The use of social media during divorce is widely discouraged because posts can serve as evidence. Your posts can disadvantage you regarding property division, spousal support and child support/custody, among other divorce-related matters.
So, should you deactivate your social media accounts, or can you still post without complicating your case? Here is what you need to know:
Avoid posting things that can harm you
If you want to continue using social media during your divorce, avoid posting things that can harm you. If a picture can offend your soon-to-be ex-spouse, don’t post it.
Further, avoid posts that can give the idea that you may be hiding assets, such as purchasing expensive items or going on luxurious vacations. Or pictures that may insinuate you are unfit for primary custody of your child. You should also not discuss your divorce online. And don’t leave questionable comments surrounding divorce on other people’s posts.
If you want to post during your divorce, focus on posting “positive” things, such as positive affirmations. Essentially, posts that can’t trigger your spouse to retaliate against you. Otherwise, it can be beneficial to deactivate your accounts.
Let the people around you know
Politely let the people around you know you don’t want some pictures on social media. If you go out for drinks or on vacation with loved ones, you can take photos with them, but they should understand they can’t post them even if they promise to change their privacy settings.
Social media can be a great tool when going through a divorce, as you can connect with several online support groups. However, it can also negatively impact your case. Thus, you need to be extra careful and well-informed to protect your interests.